5 Habits Only Gentlemen Have

Do you consider yourself to be a gentleman? If so, here are 10 things gentlemen do, and if you already do these, then maybe you are really a gentleman.

1. Dressing Well: Now dressing well may not necessarily be a habit of a gentleman, but a lot of gentlemen prefer dressing well, because in this day and age, people judge you more based on what you wear, than your personality. It's thus important to dress well.

2. Taking the Extra Step: It's not unusual for a gentleman to take the extra step for his woman. It's not necessary to walk her till her doorstep, she can do it herself. It's not necessary to open the door for her, she can do that herself. It's not necessary to stand up when she's standing, but they do it anyway. Respect and manners are of vital importance to a gentleman.

3. Standing Up for What's Right: A gentleman expresses his views, he expresses what he thinks is right, and he stands up for what he feels is right, and stands by it if people go against what he says. He is no quitter.

4. Fight, but Not Till The End: A gentleman can fight, and he will if circumstances force him to, but he won't pick a fight. He solves his issues without fighting if possible, and with fighting if necessary.
(I do not have this habit, I'm an aggressive person by nature. I'm not proud of it)

5. Just: Sure, a gentleman is partial to women, but if he feels a woman is wrong, he will go against her. He will express his views against her. He is not afraid of what others think of him. He isn't afraid of going against someone who isn't right. In a usual scenario, he shows respect to both men and women. He is just and fair.

A Young Gent

A young gentleman...it's something that's hard to see...by young, I'm talking about teenager young.

Teens...where young men think it's cool to be a bad boy, where young men think it's cool to be an asshole, where young men think it's awesome to date many young ladies at a time.

At least that's how we think of all of them. What we must not forget, however, is that 9 of the men may behave like assholes, but there will always be one young mind that will disagree with this.
In fact, there may be two, or even three of them that mentally disagree with this, but behave like an asshole just to 'fit in' with every other guy. Sometimes, teens behave this way because their peers call them 'nerds' or 'uncool' if they don't behave like an asshole.

This post is to that one young teenager with a gentleman mind, who strives to give women the respect they deserve, even at an early age, but finds it difficult. 

I myself am one of them. I am the one guy who doesn't find it cool when a guy shows off the nude pictures he received from a girl. I'm the one guy who looks down upon assholes, while other men blame women for calling them assholes, even though they actually are nothing more than assholes.

Hey, listen up you teenage boy, it's alright if you don't fit in. Ask my girlfriend. I find it difficult to like a lot of guys, because I see through them. I see what they are inside, not what they pretend to be.
My girlfriend thinks I'm crazy because of the way I behave, but she can't see what I can.



I have nobody's support here. I have nobody who understands what I understand. I have nobody who realizes why I behave so detached from every other guy. Yes, I am that one teenager who does not agree with the assholes out there.
But you know what? I don't care. I don't care because I know that the world doesn't see what I see...I know that the few young men who may agree with me will not show it. I know that my girlfriend will never understand why I'm so cautious of being too close with another person. Even you reading this may think I'm a crazy man, but I don't care.

You shouldn't, either. If you care about what the world thinks of you, you will never be able to live your dream life.
If you want to be a gentleman, don't be with people who aren't gentlemen. It's not worth it.

Stand up for what you think is right, even if it goes against the popular belief. Be that one alpha who stands up for what he believes in. Be that one young teenager who fights for what's right. Now THAT's cool!

All the best, readers. Live your dreams, live for what you feel is right. Don't live based on what others would think of you, because that's not a life.

I hope this helped. Have a nice day ahead.

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Don't Give Up.

A lot of breakups happen...a lot of people cheat in on their partners...a lot of people go their separate ways after realizing that they're not meant for each other...and because a lot of people break up...does that mean you do?

I've personally had a ton of problems in my current relationship.
Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship...and that's what my girlfriend and I lost.

People break up because they get cheated on - and that's justified, because the value of the relationship is lost.
People break up for the smallest of reasons - and that's what's not a real relationship.


There are three main elements that are needed to keep a relationship alive, in order of importance:
1. Love
2. Trust
3. Value


Let's discuss the above backwards:

Value

Value is one of the key factors of a relationship. Every relationship requires the two people to value the relationship they have...relationships don't work without value.

Someone who's in a relationship needs to understand what it takes to be in the relationship, depending on the bond and the type of person they're with:

For example, There are some people like me, who require a lot of time and attention. My girlfriend needs to understand that and then commit to me, because if she doesn't have time for me, it's not worth being in the relationship.

At times, people are faced with situations when their partner used to value the relationship, but over time the value of the relationship went down in their eyes.

Take my example again. My girlfriend doesn't spend as much time with me as she used to, and that's something we both have to deal with....of course she values the relationship, but things are never the same when the value of the relationship goes down in one's eyes. 

Trust

Trust is the most important factor of a relationship...you know why? Because if the trust in a relationship's gone, soon the love fades away because you can't trust your partner, and you feel this uncertainty in your mind and body, because you don't know when your partner's going to lie to you or tell you the truth.

Just recently, there was a lot of disruption in my relationship...in the end, the trust in my relationship vanished...It was heartbreaking for both my girlfriend and I, but we're still together, and things are going to (hopefully) get back to normal.

Why didn't I give up?

I didn't give up, because I saw no reason to. There was still love in my relationship, and as long as love exists, nothing's a reason to break up. Unless your heart breaks, you don't need to break up. Things can always be sorted. Remember that there's always light at the end of the tunnel. 

Sure, I don't trust my girlfriend as much anymore, but you know what, I never let her feel bad. She's my girl and it's my responsibility to take care of her, and that's why whether I'm happy or not, I make sure she's happy and content. 

In today's world, people give up easily, people quit the relationships easily. Everyone wants a perfect relationship, but guess what, there isn't one. No relationship is perfect, because there will always be disturbances in every relationship. 

You should be grateful for the good things about your partner, rather than focusing on the fights and the bad qualities of a person. Be grateful for what you have, for there are those who don't have half of what you do.

Love

It's weird how I say trust is the most important, and still I listed love as the first point above. 

The reason is, although with trust, love fades away, as long as there is even a small amount of love in your relationship, it will survive. It will survive unless you quit. 

Relationships can be difficult sometimes, but that doesn't mean that with the slightest inconvenience you quit. Give love a chance, give trust a chance, give the value of your relationship a chance...one small mistake is not the end of the world...

Love is beautiful, love is blind, and love is powerful.

Love is powerful, because it keeps two together in the most difficult situations, but love is also powerful, because if you doubt love even a little, if you doubt your partner even a little, it could destroy your entire relationship. 

Sounds complicated...

A lot of things in life aren't meant to be simple...just like relationships...

A relationship is like a knife...it can help you cut, or it can cut you, depending on how you use the knife...

If you're careless with the knife, you'll cut yourself...if you value the knife, sharpen it, clean it, handle it with care, use it correctly, it will last you much longer and it won't cut you.

A relationship, when valued, treats you well....when you trust your partner, love him/her, take care of him/her, understand his/her point of view, your relationship will last you much, much longer, and it won't hurt you.

Similarly, when your knife becomes blunt, you don't throw it away. You simply sharpen it and it works as good as new!

When your relationship faces hurdles, you don't just give up, or throw away the relationship. You take care of it, sort out the problems together, and come to a mutual decision.

Thank you for taking out your time to read this post. 

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The Only Way A Woman Will NOT Friend-zone You

There are dozens of womanizers, dozens of dating gurus, dozens of stylists...

Womanizers may not be good teachers, since the best athlete isn't always the best teacher.

Dating Gurus might help to a certain extent, but the rest is up to you...your looks...your personality...it's entirely you.

Stylists will say that dressing will attract a woman...they are not wrong, but dressing is not everything that attracts a woman.

However good or bad the above 3 types of people are, there is always going to be this one thing that all of them know about attracting a woman.


Everyone above might mention it, but you might not take it seriously. They might tell you that you need it, but you might not take it as an important factor. The truth is, this is one of the MOST important factors there is to attracting a woman.


The answer is....CONFIDENCE.

Now before you leave this post, let me just tell you that as boring or complicated as it sounds, it's an easy thing to attain...and I'm going to tell you how to gain confidence.


1) BELIEVE: Believing in yourself is what builds confidence in you. Don't worry, I won't leave it at that. Let's discuss how to believe in yourself:

-Your Job:- Even if you have the worst job in the world, understand that you're one person who works his ass off for money...who works his ass off and earns his money the right way. There are so many people who get easy money the wrong way, but not you. There are people who beg and don't work a day in their lives, but you get up every morning and face your problems with courage. YOU are better than most of the other people.

-Not Giving In:- You're reading this because you want to impress a woman. You're reading this because you're not going to sit back and let life do it's thing, you're taking charge of what's happening in your life. You want things to happen your way, unlike so many people in this world who just let things be. You should be proud of yourself.

-You're One of a Kind:- There might be theories of dopplegangers, but you are one of a kind. Even your doppleganger might not have a personality as awesome as you.

-Think Good Things: Think of things you're thankful for. Remember all the good things you did. Remember all those acts of courage, and how you showed courage even if it was not a big thing. It's the small things that count.



2) PRETEND: Pretending to be confident is what it takes sometimes. Even if you are not confident, if you portray confidence in your character, it tends to influence your brain too...Here are a few tips on how to portray yourself as a confident man:

-The Mirror:- Stand in front of the mirror every day. Practice speaking slowly and clearly. Not too slow, but not so fast that nobody can understand you. Be calm, and clear. Do not stutter, do not add fillers to your sentences like "umm" "uhh"...practice speaking powerfully, and to the point.
Practice every day.

-Walk Like You Own It:- Walking confidently is a very important aspect of making a first impression on someone. Here are a few tips on how to walk confidently:

• While walking, imagine that you're one of the most powerful and influential persons in the world. Imagine you own the place. How would you walk if you were the most powerful person in the room?
• While walking, imagine that you have a cape attached to your back. While you're walking, this cape has to fly behind like a king's cape. Would you walk with a bent back? Would you walk fast? No, you would walk slowly and powerfully. That's how you should walk.
• Imagine you're a king walking into the room. They are your subjects. You have to show your subjects who's boss. In that case, you wouldn't walk like a lousy McWhineyPants, would you? You would walk as if nobody can harm you, as if they are all under your command. 

3) TALK LIKE YOU OWN IT! Talking is the most important part of confidence. If you are dressed well, you walk like a fucking king, everyone thinks you're the man, but when you open your mouth, if you sound like a sissy, all those thoughts fade out of people's minds and they'll be dying to burst out laughing. 

Here are a few tips on how to talk properly:

-No Stutters:- Talk calmly, clearly, even if your heart's racing. No fillers like "um" and "uhh". 

-Do Not Agree:- Be a man of your own opinion. Be honest and straightforward. If you agree with something, then so be it. If you disagree, then don't be afraid to say you disagree, even if the entire room is filled with people who agree...having your own opinion shows confidence.

I hope this post helped. Stay tuned for more. 

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A Woman's Story: The Gentleman's Understanding of a Woman

Introduction:

A man's an asset...a woman's the downfall of a family...is the thinking of a lot of people...a woman's birth brings unhappiness and disappointment to a lot of families...

A man can continue expanding and growing the family and earning for the family...a man's considered the successor of a family...whereas a woman...she's considered to be a loss as she gets older and gets married...and gives up the family name.

A Woman's Story: A Gentleman's Point of View...

A woman is born into this world, often being considered a burden and considered weak...

A woman grows up in a restricted environment...parents restricting her from doing a lot of things that men can do....just to make sure she's safe...why? Is it because the parents think that a woman's incapable of defending herself? Well, that's what society thinks.

A woman, is very capable of defending herself...very. The only thing that makes her vulnerable is society. She is born in a society where women are considered the weaker race...where women are considered an object...where men think they can do whatever they want with a woman...any woman.

If a woman is being treated as weaker and more delicate, that's how their mind will process things...over time a woman accepts that she belongs to the weaker race, and that's where things don't work out for a woman...that's where she stops believing that she can...that's where she stops standing up to her abusive boyfriend...that's where she stops trying to make her life better when she's upset because her boyfriend treats her badly...that's where she stops thinking that she doesn't need a man...that's where she starts depending on a man for everything...that's where she loses her freedom.

A woman's body structure is different from that of a man...her mind works differently from that of a man...but does that make her incapable? Sure, men have a tougher physique and women are a little more gentle...in mind and body, but that doesn't mean that they have no right over men.

Women, ask yourself this: Why does a woman feel unsafe the minute she walks out of her home? Why does a woman have to be cautious about every man she looks at? Why does she have to face people staring at her if she's not with a man? Why does she have to be the one that's raped and not a man? Why does she have to feel helpless when someone unknown passes lewd comments on her?

This is only because women think they're lower to men...because they think they're incapable of defending themselves...

Women, this is how gentlemen think of you:

You are beautiful, you are capable, you are amazing, you're like an angel sent on earth with all powers in your hands...you bear immense unbearable pain for days every month, you bear all the torture an abusive boyfriend lays upon you...you feel unsafe when you walk out, but you still face your fears and walk out of that door every day...and you think you're weak?

It's time you stop being what society tells you to be, and start being who you really are...Forget what society thinks of you as a woman and think of what you truly are on the inside...don't let men tell you what you are, or put you down, or treat you any way they want...stand up for what's right, and stand up for your dignity. Stand up for what you are as a woman even if the society tells you that you're different and that you have to act in a certain way...

There will always be people in society who will think of you badly if you do what you want, what you're capable of...but there will be few of us...the real gentlemen, who will look up to you, and think of you as a role model for every other woman that lives.

Real men respect a woman who stands up for herself and for what's right.



A message to mine:

My girlfriend is a really busy woman...quite often too busy to meet me. Sure, I don't like her being so busy, but I respect her...and she may not believe me, but I respect her a lot...

You know why?

It's because she's doing what she wants with her life...She's becoming the woman she wants to be, and she's building her life and writing her own story irrespective of what others tell her is right...at this point in her life, I'm not her top priority, no matter how badly she wants me to be, but it's because she's making sacrifices now that will result in her living the life she's imagined for herself.

She, I believe, is the perfect example of what a woman should be. Independent from what her parents think, from what others think. The world will tell you what's right and what's wrong, but it's your choice to be bound by their opinion, or build your own.

How to make a girl realize your worth

Realizing each other's worth is the most important part of a relationship.

It is said that one doesn't know anything's true worth until he's lost it. It's a true statement, and that's why we must make sure we understand the worth of our partner, and they understand our worth.

More than often, it so happens that you know her worth, but you feel that she doesn't value you, your time, or your efforts as much as you value hers. 

Maybe she doesn't do as much as you do for her. Maybe you do a lot for her and she doesn't do enough to make you feel the same way. Maybe she doesn't make you feel wanted or loved, or missed.

Maybe she doesn't have enough time for you.

It all basically boils down to one thing: she doesn't have enough time for you. If she did give you enough of her time, you wouldn't feel that she doesn't understand your worth.

Why wouldn't she have time for you?

Well, if she doesn't have time for you, it means she puts other things before you, which in turn means that you're not her top priority. It means that she puts other things before you, and puts in only the remaining time and energy into making you happy and spending time with you.

If above's the case, she obviously doesn't understand what you're worth.

Prevent hurting yourself

When you know she doesn't realize your worth, it hurts. When you know she isn't doing enough for you, it hurts. The first step to making her realize your worth, is accepting that you're not her top priority and moving on. You have to look at the problem and accept it. Being in denial will lead you nowhere. 

Final Stage - Making her realize it

1) Communication: The very first thing you should do now, is talk to her. Tell her you're unhappy. Tell her you don't like that she doesn't have time for you, or that she doesn't put that much effort into the relationship.

2) Advise her: If she doesn't improve after the communication, then maybe she just doesn't know how to go about it. Therefore, you must advise and suggest ways you can make the relationship work out.

"A relationship can never work if you're the only one putting efforts into it"

3) Decision: It takes a lot of courage to let someone you love go. However, you have to accept that you're the only one putting effort into the relationship. If you're tired of not being appreciated enough, then it's better to just let go. It might hurt in the short term, but it'll be better for you in the long run.

REMEMBER: There's only so much you can do to make the relationship work if the other person isn't cooperating. However, never be mean or violent in words or actions in such a situation. Always follow the path of a gentleman.

I hope this post helped you.

Have a nice day.

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5 Signs That You're a Fuckboy

Fuckboys are everywhere, and you're probably one of them. If you really want to find out, here are the common traits of an everyday...

1) "Oh Can I See Them?" IF he's a guy who wants nudes and thinks about sex all the time, talks dirty to women who aren't ready for it, HE are a fuckboy.

2) Don't: If he's a guy who doesn't treat you right, who doesn't show that he cares about you, you're dealing with a fuckboy...

3) HER, really? If he flirts with more women than just you, if you feel that he's cheating, he probably is. Don't confront him about it till you have proof, because fuckboys will probably just ditch you without proof.

4) People? Nah! If your dear guy doesn't want to be seen with you in public, then you have to leave him...it's simple. If a relationship is meant to be a secret, you don't have to be in it, no matter how much you love him.

5) People? Nah! If he ONLY wants one thing when y'all meet, and that's making out or sex, then you have to leave him. There's much more to a relationship than getting physical...BUT if he's deprived of physical attention, that's wrong too. Being physical is an important part of the relationship, but it's not necessary to get physical every fucking time you meet.

6) YOU MUST PAY THE PRICE: When a guy makes you feel guilty about not doing anything that he wants, for example, if you refuse to send him nude pictures of you and he makes you feel guilty about it, he's definitely a fuckboy, and you must run.

I hope this post helped you in some way...get rid of those who treat you bad aka. fuckboys.

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Flirting Without Creeping Her Out? Sounds Complicated

...but it isn't. All you need to know is how to flirt subtly. Everyone knows how to flirt, but not everyone knows how to flirt without making her uncomfortable...that's what I will be teaching you today...and that's how a gentleman would do it.

Before I was dating my girl, when we used to text each other, one night I casually asked her how she felt about this mutual friend of ours. She said he was good as a friend (believe me, he's not) but he flirted too much and that was unattractive.

See, this is where guys go wrong. If you don't know how to flirt, you're just going to creep the girl out. So here's a few tips on how to practice flirting with a woman better:

1) There's a time: You can't just keep flirting with a woman all the time. You have to do it at intervals, unequal intervals. The time gap between your flirty texts should initially be very very long, and reduce the time gap as you get closer to her.

2) Obvious? Nah!: The most important thing about flirting with a girl is not making it obvious. Using a pickup line is the worst way to pick up girls anywhere. It might have worked wonders earlier, I don't know, but it definitely doesn't work on a lot of women now...

What you need to do is learn how to be subtle about flirting. The woman shouldn't know flat out that you're flirting with her. Flirting should be like giving her hints that you like her...she will understand that you're flirting with her, but she won't mind it because it's soft and not too direct. She feels comfortable responding to such flirts.

3) Be smooth: Just like pickup lines are meant to be smooth and not cheesy, flirts are also meant to be smooth...you can't go up to a girl and say "umm...uh....uff..." absolutely not! You just cannot afford to use such fillers in your sentences. It makes you appear unconfident, trying too hard, and like an absolute shit-head. 

4) Smile: Smiling is important. If you talk to her with a straight face all the time, she will feel the tension between the two of you and maybe not like to contact you anymore. I know you don't like your smile, nobody does, but others do, believe me, specially women. 

Smiling makes them feel like you're a nice guy and it makes them feel comfortable around you. That way, flirting will be easier for you.

5) Show her,  don't tell her: Actions speak louder than words. Show her that you care for her, do little things that matter. Pull out the chair for her, you go and get her the drink she wants, you make sure she's comfortable, 

and that shit's better than any kind of flirting.

I hope this post helped you in some way. 

Thank you for taking out your time to read this post!

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The Modern Gentleman: A Rare Sight?

I recently read an article where they said that today's society is not encouraging men to be gentlemanly...as a matter of fact, that's not true.

Many of today's men are still taught that one must not hit women, talk to women in a bad way, respect them, but that doesn't work out the best, does it?

Well, here's the reason why:

1) Parents might tell their children to behave in a certain way, but the proper implementation of what they say is missing...you might tell your kid to eat food, but the kid will not eat food until he is taught how to eat food.

2) Secondly, let's say your father disrespects your mother, you tend to become like him. 50% of children tend to follow their parents' actions.



Now, there are four types of men in this world:

1) Those who dress up in suits but are bad on the inside.

2) Those who dress dangerous on the outside but are gentlemen on the inside.

3) Those who are all-nice.

4) Those who are all-bad.

Does the modern gentleman really exist?

There are a lot of men who are really good from their heart, and genuinely respect women from their heart, but all of them don't wear suits and hats.

The days are gone where gentlemen wore suits and hats. In today's world, the worst-dressed man or that beggar on the street you see everyday, anyone could be a gentleman.

There are quite a few modern gentlemen actually, but:

1) You women find some faults in them and reject them. You don't like their eyebrows, the shape of their lips, or something that isn't even reason enough to reject them.

2) You want a perfect man. That's what you're looking for. You're never going to get what you're looking for.

3) Judging a person by looks is not the best thing to do. You might be missing out on some really good guys.

4) You'd prefer the richer one.

5) You have too many requirements.

6) The bad boys approach you, and you are easily approachable.

7) Your dressing style only attracts bad boys.

8) The gentlemen are never given a chance...they get friend-zoned.

9) You're too late...you fucked up and he's gone.

10) You take advantage of his kindness...and you will only realize this when he goes away to someone more deserving.



If none of the above describes you as a girl, then just wait for it. Your time will come. Don't worry. When he comes, accept him how he is, and don't make the mistake of losing him.


I hope this post helped you.

Have a nice day.

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Value of True Friends

Sure, a gentleman is a very kind and polite person, but he knows what kind of people to be around, and what kind of people are bad for him.

This post is a tribute to my girlfriend who I had a really big fight with when I left the company of some bad friends, who even she was, and is friends with. 


Why should we be around good people?

Success and happiness comes from good friends.

'you are the average of the five people you hang out with most.'

You will not be successful unless you have people with the mind of success, creativeness and innovation. Be around successful people to have better chances of success.

You will not be happy if you're with friends who pretend to be good and understanding when they're actually not.


Who to Avoid?

When choosing friends, you have to make some hard choices. Here are a few qualities of people that you shouldn't be friends with:

1) Pretentiousness: If the person is pretentious, a liar, a manipulator, don't be friends with him. You might not realize this before you're friends with him, but after you realize this, it's time to let go of that friend.

2) Habits: If the person is into any kind of alcohol abuse, weed/marijuana, leave their company.

3) Manners: Everybody can't be a gentleman, even I'm trying my best to be one, but if one's mannerless, has no etiquette, what are you doing with such a low life?



Some good signs:

1) Dressing: If the person has a decent dressing sense, it's a good sign. However, not all well-dressed people are good, and not all badly-dressed people are bad. Again, dressing can tell a lot about the person's attitude and outlook.

2) Treating: How he treats girls, how he/she talks to people, that's what makes the difference. 90% of the polite and well - spoken people are good. However, there are 10% who don't have good intentions, so be careful!

3) Happy: If the person's happy for you and your relationship, he/she is worth keeping, otherwise no. How could you be friends with someone who wants to separate you from your partner? Life's too short to be friends with the wrong people. Your relationship is definitely more important than that.


To my girlfriend: Please don't be upset with me because of my decision to leave them. I apologized a thousand times already. Don't find any more reasons to be upset, I beg you. 


To my readers: Like I mentioned earlier, life's too short to be wasted on some bad company. Please choose the right people, and I know it's difficult, but leave the company of those who don't deserve you. 

Things Women Love

Women love a lot of things, but there's not many men who can give women what they like. If you do half of the things in this post, then women probably already appreciate your etiquette and manners.

Please note: This post is in no way implying that there is a certain formula/way that will attract every girl...every girl is different, this is based on what women generally like. (for all the feminists)

Here are some qualities of a gentleman that women really appreciate:


1) Holding Doors: Not only is this the most well known piece of advice for men, it's a very subtle thing to do for a woman to show her that you're there for her.

However, don't think of holding the door for your girl only. That's not what a gentleman does. A gentleman holds the door for others too. That shows kindness and good manners, and it's quite attractive to women because they know they're not dating a jerk.


2) A man of words...meaningful words: When you make commitments, follow through with it. Don't make blind commitments which you're not going to fulfill.

A man who does what he says is attractive because he's more dependable. Women know that if he says something, he'll do it, and it helps them feel more comfortable with such a dependable man.

3) Do you have the guts? Women love it when a man is truthful. When a man doesn't lie, women trust them more. With trust comes comfort, with comfort comes attraction...but women can feel comfortable with a man who's friendzoned too...so play your cards right.

To play your cards right, speak the truth, but don't look like a dork while doing it. Don't look like a very simple guy with no excitement or sense of humor, a person who just likes to speak the truth and not joke about it.


4) Leave a bite, you dog! One of the few rather unknown traits of a gentleman, is always leaving the last bite. Even if nobody eats it, leave the last bite. It might look like a waste of food, but sometimes people don't tell you that they want the last bite, because they think about you. If you leave the last bite, they might just take it because they want it.

I remember a time when I had a big problem following this rule.
Valentines day this year, I took my girlfriend out for lunch. She's vegetarian, and I'm not, but I didn't order non vegetarian food because I didn't want her to feel tempted by the smell of something she couldn't eat.
So, we ordered one vegetarian dish. The waiter said it would be enough. When it arrived at our table, I made sure she was served first. After she took some in her plate, I took some for myself.
I took a second serving. It just wasn't enough. I was so fucking hungry, and the dish wasn't filling my stomach...it just wasn't.
She said she was stuffed, and there was one last bite remaining, and I was so tempted to eat it, although I knew that I should leave the last bite...guess what I did.
I ATE IT. I ate the last bite, else I would die hungry ha ha!

Okay that wasn't funny. Let's move on.


5) Walking, but beware of her:  Walk, and walk without worrying about yourself. Worry about her safety. Walk on the outside of the footpath, hold her hand while crossing the road, keep her safe.

I hope this article helped you.

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Protecting a Girl

You're a man. Without being stereotypical, it's your duty to protect a woman. If a woman's protecting you, it could mean two things:

1) She's a fucking badass.

2) You're a woos.

I'm not saying women are not strong or capable, but women like it when they feel safe and know that this man is going to stand up for them.

When a man takes care of a woman, she likes it.

No matter how much a woman says she can take care of herself or that she doesn't need a man, they love it when there is someone to take care of her and someone who she feels comfortable with.

So now protecting doesn't literally mean fighting for her...yes, fighting for her is a part of protecting her, but it's the small things that really matter.

Here's what a woman would like and appreciate in a man:

1) Safe: Feeling safe is one of the most important things for a woman in a relationship. She has to be comfortable and safe with you to be dating you.
Only after she's comfortable, will she feel safe around you. This means that she can't feel safe around you until she's comfortable, but she's comfortable doesn't mean she feels safe. They're two different things.


2) The Road: Let's say you're walking with your girl, and she's walking on the outside, near the road. You gently pull her in so that there's no risk, even if you're on a walkway. This will show her that you care about her, and that you won't let anything happen to her. It makes her feel good...

Like I said earlier, it's the small things that matter.


3) Are you present? Your presence plays a key factor in making her feel safe. If you don't have a strong presence, then she won't feel you being there, even if you are. However, if you have a strong presence, she'll know that you're there for her.


4) Fighting: Now fighting doesn't literally mean go and get into a fist fight all the time, but the very fact that you stand up for her, whether by words or action, is enough to make her feel safe whenever she's with you.


5) Turn Down? Nahhh: Try not to turn down her requests to meet you too many times. You might be a busy man, but you have to take out time for her. If you keep rejecting her requests of meeting you then she will feel that you're not there for her.

If she feels that you're not there for her when she needs you, then how do you expect her to feel safe and happy?



Why do women psychologically want to feel safe around a man?

Well, this is called sexual dimorphism. Sexual Dimorphism refers to the difference in size, shape, etc. in general between a man and a woman.

A man is usually taller and looks stronger to women (although many women are much stronger than men, don't get me wrong). These are the characteristics that make a woman expect you to protect her and keep her safe.



I hope this post helped you. Keep her safe, and be safe!

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How to Text a Woman Appropriately

Appropriate texting is a problem for today's youth. This world is so full of fuckbois and pretentious people who lure women by portraying themselves as good guys when they actually aren't, we need change. We need some manners to be inculcated in the minds of the youth.

We need to teach the youth of this world how to respect women, and we have to revive the manners that the gentlemen in the olden times followed. It seems to be forgotten even among the good guys.

Here's the few things you need to make sure you do, when you text a girl:





1) Comfort: I have discussed this before, but it's very, very important to make sure that the girl you're texting is comfortable with you.

For instance, I have personally seen that online dating sites have a lot of men beginning the conversations with "send nudes" or talking a little, and before the woman even knows where he's from or what he does, he asks for nudes.

What you should do instead, is once you guys start texting, make her comfortable, make her develop a little trust in you, or at least let her know that you're not dangerous. Quit asking for nudes, go watch porn if you really need to.


However, be careful if you want to be out of the friendzone. Comfort is essential, but too much comfort may land you in the friendzone. If a woman gets too comfortable with you, then she might just think of you as a comfortable friend, someone's shoulder she can cry on when she breaks up or has a fight. Someone she can share her feelings with, but never someone who she would date. So Be Careful.





2) Stop Bitching: Don't bitch about people too much. Sometimes I do this, and I'm aware of it, but when it comes to someone I just started texting, I would never bitch about anyone.

When a woman knows you, it's different. She already has an opinion on you, and you can share your griefs with her. You can express what your opinion on someone to her.

However, when you just start texting a girl, she is still forming an opinion on you. At such a point if you bitch about people, it will show her that you're a negative person, even if you're not usually like that.

Remember that her opinion on you is not formed in the first conversation you guys have. It takes a few days for her to get familiar with your ways and form an opinion on you.





3) Don't Stalk: Let's say you just met a woman online or you just met a woman somewhere in the real world, and you guys followed each other on instagram and took each other's numbers.

Now, you can text her whenever convenient, you don't have to wait, but before or after your first text conversation with her, don't start randomly liking her pictures. Don't comment on them, AND DEFINITELY NOT PERVERSE COMMENTS.

You have to wait. You may like one or two of her recent pictures, not so creepy. However, don't go on a liking frenzy and like all her pictures.

After your second or third text conversation, whenever you feel the time is right, you may like a few of her recent pictures.

Liking too many of her pictures before or after your first conversation, no matter how good it may be, might creep her out. So again, be careful.





4) Learn how to chat:
I get it...as men, we all get horny much more than women, and we're open and okay to talk about it, but that doesn't mean women are, so stop texting them dirty if they don't like it. First off, before sending a dirty text, be sure that the woman you're going to text is going to be okay with it.

For instance, if you go and text an acquaintance who you rarely chat with, a picture of your dick, she might not take it very well...
Instead, if you know that your girlfriend or your friend who you've known for long enough wouldn't mind that picture, then do as you please.

The thing is, if you send dirty texts to whichever girl you feel like, she might find it really creepy. Also, THE WORST thing is to send the woman you like a dirty text without being aware of the consequences...it might just make her stop chatting with you forever.





5) Tease, but Don't Tease:
This might be a little hard to understand...tease her in a non offensive way. If you think that the message could be interpreted offensively, then add one of those smiley emoticons with the tears coming out of the eyes so she understands it's a joke...

HOWEVER, don't do it constantly. Don't keep teasing her all the time. Tease her a little, women like a man who who's playful, but they don't like a man who's nagging and constantly teasing or mocking her.

Therefore, tease her, it's a good thing, but don't tease her too much, as you may end up being offensive, or irritating.




I hope this post helped you to a certain extent! Stay tuned for weekly posts every Sunday,

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Your Ex

You obviously had an ex because the relationship didn't work out...or you left her for someone else because you're a fuckboi. Either way, it's a very sensitive matter for many people, which brings out a lot of old feelings that took you a lot of time to get over.

This, however, doesn't give you the right to talk about her any way you want. 

Your current female counterpart is not going to feel any more secure because you insult your ex...instead she might just think of you as a jerk.

You don't have to talk badly about anyone.

Learn to forgive and let go, yet don't repeat the same mistakes you've made in the past. Let go of your past, don't forget it.

Whether you broke up for the first time or you broke up for the sixth time, this article is for you, because being attractive to women is one thing, but being a gentleman with respect to your relationships is another thing.



So, here's a few common mistakes every man makes with respect to their exes:


1. Sends apologetic texts when it clearly wasn't your fault. This could include trying to get back with her just because of her looks or because you miss being with her.

2. Visiting her after your break up. You know her schedule, but that doesn't mean you can go and visit her or 'accidentally bump into her' on the road.

3. Talking shit about her. Just because the relationship didn't work out doesn't give you the right to talk about her badly behind her back...even if she does it, you have to be the gentleman and the wise one. Don't talk badly about her behind her back.
Even if she had issues, you should prevent talking about her to anyone else after the relationship's over.

4. Trying to Make your Girlfriend Feel Secure by insulting your ex. Hey, that's not how it works! Just because you're insulting your ex in front of your current girlfriend doesn't give her a sense of security...at the most it may result in your current girlfriend thinking of you as a jerk.

5. Assuming things when that's not what it really is.
For instance, you bump into your ex girlfriend, and she says "let's just be friends", it means she just wants to be friends. Don't take your thoughts to a whole new level.



Now, what should you PREVENT doing, and what SHOULD you do?

Prevent:

- Talking shit about her to anyone, SPECIALLY your girlfriend.

-After the break up, stop calling her a million times if she doesn't answer.

-Don't try to get her back.

-Don't text her things like "I'm a changed man, just give me a chance", because it's over, and you have to get over it. Even you know that you're not a changed man.

-Don't stalk her. That will only affect you more.

-Don't go and visit her uninvited.


What you SHOULD do instead:

-Don't talk about her (best thing to do)

-If your girlfriend asks you about your ex(es), tell her that she was a good girl, but you two just didn't get along. Keep it simple. However, if she hurt you, then tell your girlfriend "she was a good girl, but she hurt me, so we didn't get along"

-After the break up, don't even think of insulting your ex if she texts you. Just tell her you've moved on and that you have an amazing girlfriend.


It's that simple.


I hope this post helped you.

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Comforting: The Trait of a True Gentleman

When people are comfortable, they feel a sense of security and ease. A gentleman always takes care of his woman and makes sure she's comfortable.

In today's world, if you go online, you'll find perverts, who make women uncomfortable. 

If you go out on the streets, you'll find men staring at women, making them feel uneasy, and sometimes, unsafe.

You often hear women say that they find someone creepy which is why they don't like being around those guys. A creepy guy always makes a woman uncomfortable.

Another very important thing, that even most nice guys do, that make women highly uncomfortable being around them, is desperation.

Let me explain what I mean by this. Let's say you really really like this one girl, you take her number. (this is a real-life incident) and you keep calling her, even when she doesn't pick up. You keep texting her whenever you see her online, and she doesn't reply, but you still keep texting her. What you're doing will only make her move further away from you.

Here's the effect this has on women: They will regret ever giving you their number. Even if you're nice to her and just want to hang out with her, she will get creepy vibes from you, because let's face it, you're obsessed with calling and texting her, and you just don't stop. This will make her move away from you. They might even tell their friends to talk to you about it and tell you to stop.

There are perverts and creeps everywhere. This makes it hard for women to trust you. What's one thing that will make them think of you differently? The level of comfort you offer them.

If there's one thing common that pushes women away from perverts and creeps, it's the amount of discomfort they offer. If you can offer them something that the perverts and creeps don't, something that puts women at ease, they will think of you differently. They will look at you with an open mind and see the real you. 

The following are some ways you can keep someone comfortable around you: (be careful, because if you're not careful with the comfort level you provide women, you could be friendzoned):


1)Look, not stare: Looking is one thing, staring is another.
If you're on a date, don't just keep looking into her eyes all the time. It may come off as creepy. Look around occasionally to see and be aware of what's happening around you. Also, don't look at her breasts, you prick. That's going to make a girl more uncomfortable than you can imagine.

Secondly, don't keep staring at random girls you see on the road. It will make her uncomfortable.

2)Don't Text Or Call: You can text or call, don't get me wrong, but if she doesn't reply to your texts all of a sudden, then you know you fucked up. Don't stick to it. Don't keep calling and texting when you know she's not replying to your texts. Your continuous calling and texting wouldn't make her want to chat with you all of a sudden. In fact, it may make her move away from you.


3)Sacrifice: To keep a girl comfortable, you need to be ready to make sacrifices. For example, if it's cold and your woman forgot her jacket, or she's feeling cold, you take yours out and put it on her, no questions asked. Bear the cold, die, whatever...just keep her comfortable and do what she needs. If she's thirsty and she tells you, go and get water for her. She didn't tell you that she's thirsty if she wanted to go and get the water herself.

4)Your Friends: If she tells you that she doesn't like your friends, after meeting them once or twice, or if she tells you she doesn't want to hang out with them, don't make her hang out with them. You can hang out with them some other time when she's not around, but don't make her sit with them.

In fact, don't force her for anything unnecessarily.


5)Consider Her Ideas: We all know a guy's supposed to do all the reservations and everything, but that doesn't mean you don't listen to what she wants to do. Sometimes, put her ideas before yours. Do what she wants. It will keep her comfortable and happy.


6)Bad Boy?: Don't be a bad boy. That idea's fucked up.


Thank you for reading!
I hope this helped you.

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How NOT To Have Women Move Away From You

A Gentleman always smells good...always. Why do you think people like being around gentlemen? If they smelled like your sock, everyone would keep physical distance from him.

There's a lot of people in this world, and a big, big number of them have women - sometimes even their girlfriends or wives - keeping a physical distance from them at most times. There's only one reason for this, and only one way to prevent this from happening. The answer to both: hygiene.

Men are known to be gross, but let's not forget that average people who smell good are ten times more attractive than a good looking guy who smells of stale cheese. 

The reason women keep physical distance: hygiene...bad hygiene, more specifically. 

The solution to it: also hygiene...being hygienic, to be more specific.

So what are the problems with the men today?

The following are the problems most women face with men today:

1. Not showering every day.

2. Not showering after work-outs and physical activities.

3. Sleeping stinky.

4. After a long day, not showering.

5. Not applying any kind of cologne or deodorant.

6. Applying too much cologne or deodorant to cover up their stink.

7. Applying too much cologne in general. 

8. Smelling terrible even during the day (I have a friend and trust me, it sucks when he hugs me. Even I try to keep safe distance from him)

9. Not washing hands after peeing or eating or any similar activity.

10. Not moisturising.

What's the Solution?

Well, here are a few ESSENTIAL things you need to do as a man, to have people wanting to be around you:

1) Bathe: It's that simple. Whether you live in a cold country or not, bathe everyday, at LEAST once. If you sweat, or after you hit the gym, or do ANY physical activity, shower. It would be good to shower after work.
Apply soap every time you shower, and shampoo once in two days.


2) Clean: It's very important to clean your face twice a day. Your face is something everyone sees every day. A clean face is very attractive. An oily, greasy, dirty face which doesn't even smell nice will only push women away from you.


3) Moisturise: Moisturize your body. No matter how much your father or friends tell you that it's not necessary because it's 'only for women', do it. Let's get one thing straight: there's almost nothing a man can do that a woman can't, and almost nothing a woman can do that a man can't. Moisturizing/applying lotion on your body is not a feminine thing to do. It prevents your skin from drying up.


4) Invest: Invest in quality products for your hygiene. Buy a nice deodorant, perfume, believe me, it's worth the money. Apply it, but not too much of it. If you apply too much of it, nobody would like being around you, because the smell is too strong. Apply just enough for anyone to smell it if they're in your personal bubble.


5) Wash: Wash your hands regularly. Nobody likes being touched with dirty hands, so wash your hands before and after every meal, after you dirty your hands, before you pop a zit, the list goes on.



There's another very important thing we need to understand. It is said that women like men who are ready to get their hands dirty...sure, that's true, but only from a distance. They wouldn't like being around a dirty man.

Think about it this way: Would you like to date a lady who stinks? Would you hold the hands of a girl who hasn't washed them after digging her nose? Would you like to be seen with someone who's known to be gross? No right? Then what makes you think you're attractive, going anywhere all stinky and unhygienic?

Being a gentleman is not just about treating a lady right, it's about presenting yourself appropriately to the world, and being a true kind and loving person to everyone. 

GET RID OF THIS!

In today's post, we will get into men's style. and learn what NOT to wear, so that you look more appealing to women.

Please note that I don't intend to teach you this to be used as bait or attract women for the wrong purposes in any way. 

Now, you should not use this information and pretend to be someone you're not, be a gentleman with a sense of dressing. Let's get into this post!


1. STOP EXPOSING!

Get rid of those sandals and slippers, bois.

The only place you can wear them is at home. If you get out of your house, wear proper shoes (laces or slip ons). GET RID OF VELCRO SHOES.


Every woman will notice your shoes...except the unlikely-to-find 1% of women. Therefore, wearing proper and clean shoes is very, very important.
Many men wear sandals and slippers, and when a woman sees you wearing shoes, dressed properly, it appeals to her.


2. STOP CARRYING BAGS OF FABRIC!

By this, I mean wear your own clothes, not your dad's. A lot of men wear shirts and pants with extra fabric on them. That's not at all cool man. You choose the closest size available, then take it to a tailor to get it adjusted to fit you perfectly. It's worth the money, trust me.

This is the difference between wearing baggy clothes, and fitting clothes:

3. DON'T HESITATE!                                                                                                                                                                

Don't hesitate to be the best dressed man in the room. This doesn't mean you dress inappropriately for the occasion, but don't be afraid if you have better fitting clothes than others, you have shoes while others have slippers, and if you don't match the crowd.
If you're born to stand out, you wouldn't hesitate at all. If you have the fear of being the best dressed man in the room, though, you will lose out on confidence, which is more attractive than your clothing.

4.  EXPLORE!                                                                                                                                        

Don't feel afraid to explore. Learn new ways of dressing, learn how to tie a tie in a number of ways, explore your options in stores, if something fits you fairly well, and is still a little baggy, try the smaller size. That may fit you better. Don't feel afraid to try, because trying and exploring gets you to find better things.

  

5. DON'T FUCK THE BELT!

People often wear really nice shoes, but then when you see their belt, it just doesn't go. Here, you have two options:

• Wear identical colour of belt and shoes.
• Wear matching belt and shoes, if identical colour's not possible.

I hope this post helped you in some way!

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Short Tempered Gentlemen

I'm a very short tempered person, and I was faced with a situation where I acted very badly, and I shouldn't have. I thought I knew relationships inside out because I have been with quite a few girls in the past, but that's not true. When I was in that situation, I thought I was right, little did I know that my girlfriend was affected worse than me, because of my actions. I felt unwanted and uninvited and I left abruptly in anger, and that had a devastating effect on my girlfriend. Sure, you'd figure that she was partly at fault for my anger, but it really wasn't her fault at all, because she didn't know what she had done wrong. On that night, I learnt a big, big lesson. My girlfriend will never go through that again. If you're reading this sweetheart, I promise you I'll be better than that.

So, now you know where the inspiration for this article came from. Let's move on and learn how to be a gentleman today:

1.Be short tempered, not rude: I was rude. Very rude. You shouldn't be. It's okay to be short tempered, but it's not okay to let that inconvenience others when they deserve better.


2. Don't leave: Be a man. Face the fucking situation. Don't leave like I did.


3. Leave the counterpart unaffected: Whatever happens, make sure your female counterpart doesn't go through any kind of pain.


4. Learn: An important trait a gentleman has is that he's always ready to learn lessons in any form. Similarly, even you should learn from your mistakes, and realise your mistakes. Don't blame yourself for things that are not your fault, but learn to take the blame, learn to accept your mistakes and learn from them.


5. Don't expect: Don't expect anything from anyone. You might not get what you expected. That's exactly what happened with me, and that's the main reason I lost my temper. No matter what you do or how much you do for anyone, don't expect anything in return.


This was a short post, but it was needed. It was needed so that people like me don't make mistakes like that again. See you next week. Stay tuned! I hope this helped.

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Changing Your Impression

You were no different than any other guy you find today, but now you want to become a gentleman. The world around you has an impression of you, but you want to change it. A sudden and noticeable change would look like you're trying too hard, and might not end well, so here are the steps you follow to change the impression the people around you have of you:

1. Be Subtle: Don't go around flaunting your new qualities as a gentleman, because that would only lead to people teasing you, or finding you weird. The solution here is to be subtle. You start by doing some small things which indicate a change in you. For example, start holding doors, start dressing better, start being a little more polite. Subtly bring about the change so people around you get time to accept the changes in you.

2. Fight on the side of the weak: When you see injustice, someone weak being dominated by others, may it be your friend or someone your friends are harassing, put a stop to it, or help the weak in some way. It doesn't have to be a girl, it could be your guy friend troubled by a number of douchebags. 

3. Don't be afraid to get your hands dirty: Don't get taken away by the word 'Gentleman'. Sure, it means, you're gentle with people, but that doesn't mean that when the time comes you don't fight. For example, if a woman is being harassed, or if a girl asks you for help, or may it be your best guy friend troubled by bullies, don't be afraid to beat the shit out of a douchebag. Most importantly, don't be afraid to lose the fight. Be proud that you stood up for what's right, and don't hesitate to do so again.

4. Help: You should help anyone wherever possible. It could be an old man/woman, blind man/woman in crossing the road, helping a woman lifting a heavy bag, helping anyone in need of some help.

5. Nobody wants to know: That's right, nobody wants to know. Nobody wants to know how good your car is, nobody wants to know how badass you are, nobody wants to know which phone you have and nobody wants to know how much you work out at the gym or how big your biceps are. Nobody and I mean NOBODY, cares. Those who even care about that are not true to you. So why don't you stop showing off right now. 

Sometimes, people are born show offs, so if you're born one, you might not be aware of it. If you've heard from anyone that anyone thinks you're a show off, stop immediately. If you're aware that you're a showoff, then stop. NOW.

6. Learn to Have Fun, To an Extent: Having fun at someone's expense is not good. However, that doesn't mean you can't have fun teasing someone, even if it's a girl. Tease her, in limits. Even she might enjoy it. Don't go too far with anything, and if she doesn't like you teasing her even a little, then stop immediately, and stop those who are trying to. That way, nobody gets hurt, and you will be considered a fun person to hang out with!

7. Don't make False Promises: I know quite a few female friends who have been wronged by men like you. Don't give them false hope and false promises, when they don't stand a chance with you. If you're not considering them, make that very clear to them, so they don't have any hopes. 

Also, don't make promises if you can't fulfil them. It's as simple as that. 

So, here were 7 tips to help you improve your image. These are certain subtle changes you can bring about in yourself so that people start accepting the change in you, instead of considering you to be a weird person who gets fits.

I hope this helped!

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Presenting Yourself as a Gentleman

Okay, so you've managed to ask that girl you like out on a date, and she said yes...This is the biggest achievement of your life because you're a loser...okay that went way too far...just kidding :p

What I did above, though, is going too far with a joke. That's what you should never do when you're with your woman.

So, here's a step by step instruction on how to go about this first date to come off as a gentleman:

1. It's always the night that's special: Remember, if possible, always go for dinner...however, if dinner's too much to start with, you could just go for a coffee...however, make sure you choose a comfortable restaurant with good food...a restaurant which has comfortable couches or cushions is preferable.
Remember, dress well..it doesn't have to be a suit, just cover up that jungle on your chest and legs...and wear shoes PLEASE. However, if you take the extra effort to get dressed better than just throwing clothes on, it gives you much better chances of succeeding.

2. Make her comfortable: 
Firstly, pick her up from her place, and take her there.
Secondly, hold the door for her...car door AND restaurant door.
Thirdly, after you enter, make sure she sits first and is comfortable. Then you may sit.
All this will let her know that you're there for her, and that's one of the most comforting things for a woman. Plus, this is a way she'll subconsciously start trusting you more.

3. Ladies First: 
We all know there are two things men love: women and food. You have one of them giving you a chance, now don't the other factor ruin your night with the first factor...
So men, hold your horses...let her order first. Guys, respect her choice.
 If she chooses a vegetarian dish, don't question it, and try avoiding non-vegetarian dishes...or at least the ones that smell of dead animal.

4. Eating Etiquette: 
Do I really need to explain how to eat properly to grown men?
-Keep the table cloth on your lap..no it doesn't spoil your macho image, neither does it make you unmanly.
-Use your fork/knife/spoon properly...avoid a mess.
-CLOSE YOUR MOUTH WHILE EATING OH MY FUCKING GOD SO MANY GUYS NEED TO LEARN THIS.
-Keep your burps in...don't fart it out...just keep it in. Don't release.

5. Occasional Check: 
Keep asking her occasionally if she's comfortable or if she needs anything...Most of the times she'll say she's comfortable and that she doesn't need anything...however, if she does need something, make sure she gets what she wants.

6. Drinks: 
ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS make sure you offer to buy her a drink. It doesn't have to be alcohol, whatever it is, just make sure you do your bit by offering.

7. After Party: 
After the dinner, always ask her if she wants to do something else. Don't jump at your first chance to get in bed with her. Also, don't have sex after the first date. For once, do something other than "your place or mine". Take her for something:

1)Romantic, or
2)Fun

However, if she doesn't want to do anything after the dinner, don't pressurise her. There are possibilities that she's tired, she doesn't feel like doing anything else, or because you're lame and she never wants to meet you again.

8. My car, not a cab: 
Don't let her go home alone in a cab. Drop her to her doorstep, and only leave after you make sure she's reached home safely.

9. Don't use Cell Phone, use Cell Phone:
Remember this rule...don't use the cell phone during the date, but once you reach home, always text her telling her that you had a wonderful time. Also, include some fun things that happened between you two that night...

Sample text: "Hey, I really enjoyed tonight. Thank you for being a lovely date. I had a lot of fun                                talking about why dogs have such mushy eyes, and why birds have beaks. I hope we
                       can meet and discuss more animals soon! Take care, Joe."


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