I'm a very short tempered person, and I was faced with a situation where I acted very badly, and I shouldn't have. I thought I knew relationships inside out because I have been with quite a few girls in the past, but that's not true. When I was in that situation, I thought I was right, little did I know that my girlfriend was affected worse than me, because of my actions. I felt unwanted and uninvited and I left abruptly in anger, and that had a devastating effect on my girlfriend. Sure, you'd figure that she was partly at fault for my anger, but it really wasn't her fault at all, because she didn't know what she had done wrong. On that night, I learnt a big, big lesson. My girlfriend will never go through that again. If you're reading this sweetheart, I promise you I'll be better than that.
So, now you know where the inspiration for this article came from. Let's move on and learn how to be a gentleman today:
1.Be short tempered, not rude: I was rude. Very rude. You shouldn't be. It's okay to be short tempered, but it's not okay to let that inconvenience others when they deserve better.
2. Don't leave: Be a man. Face the fucking situation. Don't leave like I did.
3. Leave the counterpart unaffected: Whatever happens, make sure your female counterpart doesn't go through any kind of pain.
4. Learn: An important trait a gentleman has is that he's always ready to learn lessons in any form. Similarly, even you should learn from your mistakes, and realise your mistakes. Don't blame yourself for things that are not your fault, but learn to take the blame, learn to accept your mistakes and learn from them.
5. Don't expect: Don't expect anything from anyone. You might not get what you expected. That's exactly what happened with me, and that's the main reason I lost my temper. No matter what you do or how much you do for anyone, don't expect anything in return.
This was a short post, but it was needed. It was needed so that people like me don't make mistakes like that again. See you next week. Stay tuned! I hope this helped.
EMAIL ME AT kickassj754@gmail.com
So, now you know where the inspiration for this article came from. Let's move on and learn how to be a gentleman today:
1.Be short tempered, not rude: I was rude. Very rude. You shouldn't be. It's okay to be short tempered, but it's not okay to let that inconvenience others when they deserve better.
2. Don't leave: Be a man. Face the fucking situation. Don't leave like I did.
3. Leave the counterpart unaffected: Whatever happens, make sure your female counterpart doesn't go through any kind of pain.
4. Learn: An important trait a gentleman has is that he's always ready to learn lessons in any form. Similarly, even you should learn from your mistakes, and realise your mistakes. Don't blame yourself for things that are not your fault, but learn to take the blame, learn to accept your mistakes and learn from them.
5. Don't expect: Don't expect anything from anyone. You might not get what you expected. That's exactly what happened with me, and that's the main reason I lost my temper. No matter what you do or how much you do for anyone, don't expect anything in return.
This was a short post, but it was needed. It was needed so that people like me don't make mistakes like that again. See you next week. Stay tuned! I hope this helped.
EMAIL ME AT kickassj754@gmail.com
Ur girlfriend is very lucky to have u...may u both stay together...
ReplyDeleteThank you very much! I hope so too :)
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