Appropriate texting is a problem for today's youth. This world is so full of fuckbois and pretentious people who lure women by portraying themselves as good guys when they actually aren't, we need change. We need some manners to be inculcated in the minds of the youth.
We need to teach the youth of this world how to respect women, and we have to revive the manners that the gentlemen in the olden times followed. It seems to be forgotten even among the good guys.
Here's the few things you need to make sure you do, when you text a girl:
1) Comfort: I have discussed this before, but it's very, very important to make sure that the girl you're texting is comfortable with you.
For instance, I have personally seen that online dating sites have a lot of men beginning the conversations with "send nudes" or talking a little, and before the woman even knows where he's from or what he does, he asks for nudes.
What you should do instead, is once you guys start texting, make her comfortable, make her develop a little trust in you, or at least let her know that you're not dangerous. Quit asking for nudes, go watch porn if you really need to.
However, be careful if you want to be out of the friendzone. Comfort is essential, but too much comfort may land you in the friendzone. If a woman gets too comfortable with you, then she might just think of you as a comfortable friend, someone's shoulder she can cry on when she breaks up or has a fight. Someone she can share her feelings with, but never someone who she would date. So Be Careful.
2) Stop Bitching: Don't bitch about people too much. Sometimes I do this, and I'm aware of it, but when it comes to someone I just started texting, I would never bitch about anyone.
When a woman knows you, it's different. She already has an opinion on you, and you can share your griefs with her. You can express what your opinion on someone to her.
However, when you just start texting a girl, she is still forming an opinion on you. At such a point if you bitch about people, it will show her that you're a negative person, even if you're not usually like that.
Remember that her opinion on you is not formed in the first conversation you guys have. It takes a few days for her to get familiar with your ways and form an opinion on you.
3) Don't Stalk: Let's say you just met a woman online or you just met a woman somewhere in the real world, and you guys followed each other on instagram and took each other's numbers.
Now, you can text her whenever convenient, you don't have to wait, but before or after your first text conversation with her, don't start randomly liking her pictures. Don't comment on them, AND DEFINITELY NOT PERVERSE COMMENTS.
You have to wait. You may like one or two of her recent pictures, not so creepy. However, don't go on a liking frenzy and like all her pictures.
After your second or third text conversation, whenever you feel the time is right, you may like a few of her recent pictures.
Liking too many of her pictures before or after your first conversation, no matter how good it may be, might creep her out. So again, be careful.
4) Learn how to chat:
I get it...as men, we all get horny much more than women, and we're open and okay to talk about it, but that doesn't mean women are, so stop texting them dirty if they don't like it. First off, before sending a dirty text, be sure that the woman you're going to text is going to be okay with it.
For instance, if you go and text an acquaintance who you rarely chat with, a picture of your dick, she might not take it very well...
Instead, if you know that your girlfriend or your friend who you've known for long enough wouldn't mind that picture, then do as you please.
The thing is, if you send dirty texts to whichever girl you feel like, she might find it really creepy. Also, THE WORST thing is to send the woman you like a dirty text without being aware of the consequences...it might just make her stop chatting with you forever.
5) Tease, but Don't Tease:
This might be a little hard to understand...tease her in a non offensive way. If you think that the message could be interpreted offensively, then add one of those smiley emoticons with the tears coming out of the eyes so she understands it's a joke...
HOWEVER, don't do it constantly. Don't keep teasing her all the time. Tease her a little, women like a man who who's playful, but they don't like a man who's nagging and constantly teasing or mocking her.
Therefore, tease her, it's a good thing, but don't tease her too much, as you may end up being offensive, or irritating.
I hope this post helped you to a certain extent! Stay tuned for weekly posts every Sunday,
EMAIL ME AT kickassj754@gmail.com
We need to teach the youth of this world how to respect women, and we have to revive the manners that the gentlemen in the olden times followed. It seems to be forgotten even among the good guys.
Here's the few things you need to make sure you do, when you text a girl:
1) Comfort: I have discussed this before, but it's very, very important to make sure that the girl you're texting is comfortable with you.
For instance, I have personally seen that online dating sites have a lot of men beginning the conversations with "send nudes" or talking a little, and before the woman even knows where he's from or what he does, he asks for nudes.
What you should do instead, is once you guys start texting, make her comfortable, make her develop a little trust in you, or at least let her know that you're not dangerous. Quit asking for nudes, go watch porn if you really need to.
However, be careful if you want to be out of the friendzone. Comfort is essential, but too much comfort may land you in the friendzone. If a woman gets too comfortable with you, then she might just think of you as a comfortable friend, someone's shoulder she can cry on when she breaks up or has a fight. Someone she can share her feelings with, but never someone who she would date. So Be Careful.
2) Stop Bitching: Don't bitch about people too much. Sometimes I do this, and I'm aware of it, but when it comes to someone I just started texting, I would never bitch about anyone.
When a woman knows you, it's different. She already has an opinion on you, and you can share your griefs with her. You can express what your opinion on someone to her.
However, when you just start texting a girl, she is still forming an opinion on you. At such a point if you bitch about people, it will show her that you're a negative person, even if you're not usually like that.
Remember that her opinion on you is not formed in the first conversation you guys have. It takes a few days for her to get familiar with your ways and form an opinion on you.
3) Don't Stalk: Let's say you just met a woman online or you just met a woman somewhere in the real world, and you guys followed each other on instagram and took each other's numbers.
Now, you can text her whenever convenient, you don't have to wait, but before or after your first text conversation with her, don't start randomly liking her pictures. Don't comment on them, AND DEFINITELY NOT PERVERSE COMMENTS.
You have to wait. You may like one or two of her recent pictures, not so creepy. However, don't go on a liking frenzy and like all her pictures.
After your second or third text conversation, whenever you feel the time is right, you may like a few of her recent pictures.
Liking too many of her pictures before or after your first conversation, no matter how good it may be, might creep her out. So again, be careful.
4) Learn how to chat:
I get it...as men, we all get horny much more than women, and we're open and okay to talk about it, but that doesn't mean women are, so stop texting them dirty if they don't like it. First off, before sending a dirty text, be sure that the woman you're going to text is going to be okay with it.
For instance, if you go and text an acquaintance who you rarely chat with, a picture of your dick, she might not take it very well...
Instead, if you know that your girlfriend or your friend who you've known for long enough wouldn't mind that picture, then do as you please.
The thing is, if you send dirty texts to whichever girl you feel like, she might find it really creepy. Also, THE WORST thing is to send the woman you like a dirty text without being aware of the consequences...it might just make her stop chatting with you forever.
5) Tease, but Don't Tease:
This might be a little hard to understand...tease her in a non offensive way. If you think that the message could be interpreted offensively, then add one of those smiley emoticons with the tears coming out of the eyes so she understands it's a joke...
HOWEVER, don't do it constantly. Don't keep teasing her all the time. Tease her a little, women like a man who who's playful, but they don't like a man who's nagging and constantly teasing or mocking her.
Therefore, tease her, it's a good thing, but don't tease her too much, as you may end up being offensive, or irritating.
I hope this post helped you to a certain extent! Stay tuned for weekly posts every Sunday,
EMAIL ME AT kickassj754@gmail.com
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