You obviously had an ex because the relationship didn't work out...or you left her for someone else because you're a fuckboi. Either way, it's a very sensitive matter for many people, which brings out a lot of old feelings that took you a lot of time to get over.
Whether you broke up for the first time or you broke up for the sixth time, this article is for you, because being attractive to women is one thing, but being a gentleman with respect to your relationships is another thing.
So, here's a few common mistakes every man makes with respect to their exes:
1. Sends apologetic texts when it clearly wasn't your fault. This could include trying to get back with her just because of her looks or because you miss being with her.
2. Visiting her after your break up. You know her schedule, but that doesn't mean you can go and visit her or 'accidentally bump into her' on the road.
3. Talking shit about her. Just because the relationship didn't work out doesn't give you the right to talk about her badly behind her back...even if she does it, you have to be the gentleman and the wise one. Don't talk badly about her behind her back.
Even if she had issues, you should prevent talking about her to anyone else after the relationship's over.
4. Trying to Make your Girlfriend Feel Secure by insulting your ex. Hey, that's not how it works! Just because you're insulting your ex in front of your current girlfriend doesn't give her a sense of security...at the most it may result in your current girlfriend thinking of you as a jerk.
5. Assuming things when that's not what it really is.
For instance, you bump into your ex girlfriend, and she says "let's just be friends", it means she just wants to be friends. Don't take your thoughts to a whole new level.
Now, what should you PREVENT doing, and what SHOULD you do?
Prevent:
- Talking shit about her to anyone, SPECIALLY your girlfriend.
-After the break up, stop calling her a million times if she doesn't answer.
-Don't try to get her back.
-Don't text her things like "I'm a changed man, just give me a chance", because it's over, and you have to get over it. Even you know that you're not a changed man.
-Don't stalk her. That will only affect you more.
-Don't go and visit her uninvited.
What you SHOULD do instead:
-Don't talk about her (best thing to do)
-If your girlfriend asks you about your ex(es), tell her that she was a good girl, but you two just didn't get along. Keep it simple. However, if she hurt you, then tell your girlfriend "she was a good girl, but she hurt me, so we didn't get along"
-After the break up, don't even think of insulting your ex if she texts you. Just tell her you've moved on and that you have an amazing girlfriend.
It's that simple.
I hope this post helped you.
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This, however, doesn't give you the right to talk about her any way you want.
Your current female counterpart is not going to feel any more secure because you insult your ex...instead she might just think of you as a jerk.
You don't have to talk badly about anyone.
Learn to forgive and let go, yet don't repeat the same mistakes you've made in the past. Let go of your past, don't forget it.
Whether you broke up for the first time or you broke up for the sixth time, this article is for you, because being attractive to women is one thing, but being a gentleman with respect to your relationships is another thing.
So, here's a few common mistakes every man makes with respect to their exes:
1. Sends apologetic texts when it clearly wasn't your fault. This could include trying to get back with her just because of her looks or because you miss being with her.
2. Visiting her after your break up. You know her schedule, but that doesn't mean you can go and visit her or 'accidentally bump into her' on the road.
3. Talking shit about her. Just because the relationship didn't work out doesn't give you the right to talk about her badly behind her back...even if she does it, you have to be the gentleman and the wise one. Don't talk badly about her behind her back.
Even if she had issues, you should prevent talking about her to anyone else after the relationship's over.
4. Trying to Make your Girlfriend Feel Secure by insulting your ex. Hey, that's not how it works! Just because you're insulting your ex in front of your current girlfriend doesn't give her a sense of security...at the most it may result in your current girlfriend thinking of you as a jerk.
5. Assuming things when that's not what it really is.
For instance, you bump into your ex girlfriend, and she says "let's just be friends", it means she just wants to be friends. Don't take your thoughts to a whole new level.
Now, what should you PREVENT doing, and what SHOULD you do?
Prevent:
- Talking shit about her to anyone, SPECIALLY your girlfriend.
-After the break up, stop calling her a million times if she doesn't answer.
-Don't try to get her back.
-Don't text her things like "I'm a changed man, just give me a chance", because it's over, and you have to get over it. Even you know that you're not a changed man.
-Don't stalk her. That will only affect you more.
-Don't go and visit her uninvited.
What you SHOULD do instead:
-Don't talk about her (best thing to do)
-If your girlfriend asks you about your ex(es), tell her that she was a good girl, but you two just didn't get along. Keep it simple. However, if she hurt you, then tell your girlfriend "she was a good girl, but she hurt me, so we didn't get along"
-After the break up, don't even think of insulting your ex if she texts you. Just tell her you've moved on and that you have an amazing girlfriend.
It's that simple.
I hope this post helped you.
EMAIL ME AT kickassj754@gmail.com
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