A Gentleman always smells good...always. Why do you think people like being around gentlemen? If they smelled like your sock, everyone would keep physical distance from him.
There's a lot of people in this world, and a big, big number of them have women - sometimes even their girlfriends or wives - keeping a physical distance from them at most times. There's only one reason for this, and only one way to prevent this from happening. The answer to both: hygiene.
What's the Solution?
Well, here are a few ESSENTIAL things you need to do as a man, to have people wanting to be around you:
1) Bathe: It's that simple. Whether you live in a cold country or not, bathe everyday, at LEAST once. If you sweat, or after you hit the gym, or do ANY physical activity, shower. It would be good to shower after work.
Apply soap every time you shower, and shampoo once in two days.
2) Clean: It's very important to clean your face twice a day. Your face is something everyone sees every day. A clean face is very attractive. An oily, greasy, dirty face which doesn't even smell nice will only push women away from you.
3) Moisturise: Moisturize your body. No matter how much your father or friends tell you that it's not necessary because it's 'only for women', do it. Let's get one thing straight: there's almost nothing a man can do that a woman can't, and almost nothing a woman can do that a man can't. Moisturizing/applying lotion on your body is not a feminine thing to do. It prevents your skin from drying up.
4) Invest: Invest in quality products for your hygiene. Buy a nice deodorant, perfume, believe me, it's worth the money. Apply it, but not too much of it. If you apply too much of it, nobody would like being around you, because the smell is too strong. Apply just enough for anyone to smell it if they're in your personal bubble.
5) Wash: Wash your hands regularly. Nobody likes being touched with dirty hands, so wash your hands before and after every meal, after you dirty your hands, before you pop a zit, the list goes on.
There's another very important thing we need to understand. It is said that women like men who are ready to get their hands dirty...sure, that's true, but only from a distance. They wouldn't like being around a dirty man.
Think about it this way: Would you like to date a lady who stinks? Would you hold the hands of a girl who hasn't washed them after digging her nose? Would you like to be seen with someone who's known to be gross? No right? Then what makes you think you're attractive, going anywhere all stinky and unhygienic?
Being a gentleman is not just about treating a lady right, it's about presenting yourself appropriately to the world, and being a true kind and loving person to everyone.
There's a lot of people in this world, and a big, big number of them have women - sometimes even their girlfriends or wives - keeping a physical distance from them at most times. There's only one reason for this, and only one way to prevent this from happening. The answer to both: hygiene.
Men are known to be gross, but let's not forget that average people who smell good are ten times more attractive than a good looking guy who smells of stale cheese.
The reason women keep physical distance: hygiene...bad hygiene, more specifically.
The solution to it: also hygiene...being hygienic, to be more specific.
So what are the problems with the men today?
The following are the problems most women face with men today:
1. Not showering every day.
2. Not showering after work-outs and physical activities.
3. Sleeping stinky.
4. After a long day, not showering.
5. Not applying any kind of cologne or deodorant.
6. Applying too much cologne or deodorant to cover up their stink.
7. Applying too much cologne in general.
8. Smelling terrible even during the day (I have a friend and trust me, it sucks when he hugs me. Even I try to keep safe distance from him)
9. Not washing hands after peeing or eating or any similar activity.
10. Not moisturising.
What's the Solution?
Well, here are a few ESSENTIAL things you need to do as a man, to have people wanting to be around you:
1) Bathe: It's that simple. Whether you live in a cold country or not, bathe everyday, at LEAST once. If you sweat, or after you hit the gym, or do ANY physical activity, shower. It would be good to shower after work.
Apply soap every time you shower, and shampoo once in two days.
2) Clean: It's very important to clean your face twice a day. Your face is something everyone sees every day. A clean face is very attractive. An oily, greasy, dirty face which doesn't even smell nice will only push women away from you.
3) Moisturise: Moisturize your body. No matter how much your father or friends tell you that it's not necessary because it's 'only for women', do it. Let's get one thing straight: there's almost nothing a man can do that a woman can't, and almost nothing a woman can do that a man can't. Moisturizing/applying lotion on your body is not a feminine thing to do. It prevents your skin from drying up.
4) Invest: Invest in quality products for your hygiene. Buy a nice deodorant, perfume, believe me, it's worth the money. Apply it, but not too much of it. If you apply too much of it, nobody would like being around you, because the smell is too strong. Apply just enough for anyone to smell it if they're in your personal bubble.
5) Wash: Wash your hands regularly. Nobody likes being touched with dirty hands, so wash your hands before and after every meal, after you dirty your hands, before you pop a zit, the list goes on.
There's another very important thing we need to understand. It is said that women like men who are ready to get their hands dirty...sure, that's true, but only from a distance. They wouldn't like being around a dirty man.
Think about it this way: Would you like to date a lady who stinks? Would you hold the hands of a girl who hasn't washed them after digging her nose? Would you like to be seen with someone who's known to be gross? No right? Then what makes you think you're attractive, going anywhere all stinky and unhygienic?
Being a gentleman is not just about treating a lady right, it's about presenting yourself appropriately to the world, and being a true kind and loving person to everyone.
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