Sure, a gentleman is a very kind and polite person, but he knows what kind of people to be around, and what kind of people are bad for him.
This post is a tribute to my girlfriend who I had a really big fight with when I left the company of some bad friends, who even she was, and is friends with.
Why should we be around good people?
Success and happiness comes from good friends.
'you are the average of the five people you hang out with most.'
You will not be successful unless you have people with the mind of success, creativeness and innovation. Be around successful people to have better chances of success.
You will not be happy if you're with friends who pretend to be good and understanding when they're actually not.
Who to Avoid?
When choosing friends, you have to make some hard choices. Here are a few qualities of people that you shouldn't be friends with:
1) Pretentiousness: If the person is pretentious, a liar, a manipulator, don't be friends with him. You might not realize this before you're friends with him, but after you realize this, it's time to let go of that friend.
2) Habits: If the person is into any kind of alcohol abuse, weed/marijuana, leave their company.
3) Manners: Everybody can't be a gentleman, even I'm trying my best to be one, but if one's mannerless, has no etiquette, what are you doing with such a low life?
Some good signs:
1) Dressing: If the person has a decent dressing sense, it's a good sign. However, not all well-dressed people are good, and not all badly-dressed people are bad. Again, dressing can tell a lot about the person's attitude and outlook.
2) Treating: How he treats girls, how he/she talks to people, that's what makes the difference. 90% of the polite and well - spoken people are good. However, there are 10% who don't have good intentions, so be careful!
3) Happy: If the person's happy for you and your relationship, he/she is worth keeping, otherwise no. How could you be friends with someone who wants to separate you from your partner? Life's too short to be friends with the wrong people. Your relationship is definitely more important than that.
To my girlfriend: Please don't be upset with me because of my decision to leave them. I apologized a thousand times already. Don't find any more reasons to be upset, I beg you.
To my readers: Like I mentioned earlier, life's too short to be wasted on some bad company. Please choose the right people, and I know it's difficult, but leave the company of those who don't deserve you.
This post is a tribute to my girlfriend who I had a really big fight with when I left the company of some bad friends, who even she was, and is friends with.
Why should we be around good people?
Success and happiness comes from good friends.
'you are the average of the five people you hang out with most.'
You will not be successful unless you have people with the mind of success, creativeness and innovation. Be around successful people to have better chances of success.
You will not be happy if you're with friends who pretend to be good and understanding when they're actually not.
Who to Avoid?
When choosing friends, you have to make some hard choices. Here are a few qualities of people that you shouldn't be friends with:
1) Pretentiousness: If the person is pretentious, a liar, a manipulator, don't be friends with him. You might not realize this before you're friends with him, but after you realize this, it's time to let go of that friend.
2) Habits: If the person is into any kind of alcohol abuse, weed/marijuana, leave their company.
3) Manners: Everybody can't be a gentleman, even I'm trying my best to be one, but if one's mannerless, has no etiquette, what are you doing with such a low life?
Some good signs:
1) Dressing: If the person has a decent dressing sense, it's a good sign. However, not all well-dressed people are good, and not all badly-dressed people are bad. Again, dressing can tell a lot about the person's attitude and outlook.
2) Treating: How he treats girls, how he/she talks to people, that's what makes the difference. 90% of the polite and well - spoken people are good. However, there are 10% who don't have good intentions, so be careful!
3) Happy: If the person's happy for you and your relationship, he/she is worth keeping, otherwise no. How could you be friends with someone who wants to separate you from your partner? Life's too short to be friends with the wrong people. Your relationship is definitely more important than that.
To my girlfriend: Please don't be upset with me because of my decision to leave them. I apologized a thousand times already. Don't find any more reasons to be upset, I beg you.
To my readers: Like I mentioned earlier, life's too short to be wasted on some bad company. Please choose the right people, and I know it's difficult, but leave the company of those who don't deserve you.
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