Flirting Without Creeping Her Out? Sounds Complicated

...but it isn't. All you need to know is how to flirt subtly. Everyone knows how to flirt, but not everyone knows how to flirt without making her uncomfortable...that's what I will be teaching you today...and that's how a gentleman would do it.

Before I was dating my girl, when we used to text each other, one night I casually asked her how she felt about this mutual friend of ours. She said he was good as a friend (believe me, he's not) but he flirted too much and that was unattractive.

See, this is where guys go wrong. If you don't know how to flirt, you're just going to creep the girl out. So here's a few tips on how to practice flirting with a woman better:

1) There's a time: You can't just keep flirting with a woman all the time. You have to do it at intervals, unequal intervals. The time gap between your flirty texts should initially be very very long, and reduce the time gap as you get closer to her.

2) Obvious? Nah!: The most important thing about flirting with a girl is not making it obvious. Using a pickup line is the worst way to pick up girls anywhere. It might have worked wonders earlier, I don't know, but it definitely doesn't work on a lot of women now...

What you need to do is learn how to be subtle about flirting. The woman shouldn't know flat out that you're flirting with her. Flirting should be like giving her hints that you like her...she will understand that you're flirting with her, but she won't mind it because it's soft and not too direct. She feels comfortable responding to such flirts.

3) Be smooth: Just like pickup lines are meant to be smooth and not cheesy, flirts are also meant to be smooth...you can't go up to a girl and say "umm...uh....uff..." absolutely not! You just cannot afford to use such fillers in your sentences. It makes you appear unconfident, trying too hard, and like an absolute shit-head. 

4) Smile: Smiling is important. If you talk to her with a straight face all the time, she will feel the tension between the two of you and maybe not like to contact you anymore. I know you don't like your smile, nobody does, but others do, believe me, specially women. 

Smiling makes them feel like you're a nice guy and it makes them feel comfortable around you. That way, flirting will be easier for you.

5) Show her,  don't tell her: Actions speak louder than words. Show her that you care for her, do little things that matter. Pull out the chair for her, you go and get her the drink she wants, you make sure she's comfortable, 

and that shit's better than any kind of flirting.

I hope this post helped you in some way. 

Thank you for taking out your time to read this post!

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