How to make a girl realize your worth

Realizing each other's worth is the most important part of a relationship.

It is said that one doesn't know anything's true worth until he's lost it. It's a true statement, and that's why we must make sure we understand the worth of our partner, and they understand our worth.

More than often, it so happens that you know her worth, but you feel that she doesn't value you, your time, or your efforts as much as you value hers. 

Maybe she doesn't do as much as you do for her. Maybe you do a lot for her and she doesn't do enough to make you feel the same way. Maybe she doesn't make you feel wanted or loved, or missed.

Maybe she doesn't have enough time for you.

It all basically boils down to one thing: she doesn't have enough time for you. If she did give you enough of her time, you wouldn't feel that she doesn't understand your worth.

Why wouldn't she have time for you?

Well, if she doesn't have time for you, it means she puts other things before you, which in turn means that you're not her top priority. It means that she puts other things before you, and puts in only the remaining time and energy into making you happy and spending time with you.

If above's the case, she obviously doesn't understand what you're worth.

Prevent hurting yourself

When you know she doesn't realize your worth, it hurts. When you know she isn't doing enough for you, it hurts. The first step to making her realize your worth, is accepting that you're not her top priority and moving on. You have to look at the problem and accept it. Being in denial will lead you nowhere. 

Final Stage - Making her realize it

1) Communication: The very first thing you should do now, is talk to her. Tell her you're unhappy. Tell her you don't like that she doesn't have time for you, or that she doesn't put that much effort into the relationship.

2) Advise her: If she doesn't improve after the communication, then maybe she just doesn't know how to go about it. Therefore, you must advise and suggest ways you can make the relationship work out.

"A relationship can never work if you're the only one putting efforts into it"

3) Decision: It takes a lot of courage to let someone you love go. However, you have to accept that you're the only one putting effort into the relationship. If you're tired of not being appreciated enough, then it's better to just let go. It might hurt in the short term, but it'll be better for you in the long run.

REMEMBER: There's only so much you can do to make the relationship work if the other person isn't cooperating. However, never be mean or violent in words or actions in such a situation. Always follow the path of a gentleman.

I hope this post helped you.

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