There are dozens of womanizers, dozens of dating gurus, dozens of stylists...
Womanizers may not be good teachers, since the best athlete isn't always the best teacher.
Dating Gurus might help to a certain extent, but the rest is up to you...your looks...your personality...it's entirely you.
Stylists will say that dressing will attract a woman...they are not wrong, but dressing is not everything that attracts a woman.
However good or bad the above 3 types of people are, there is always going to be this one thing that all of them know about attracting a woman.
Everyone above might mention it, but you might not take it seriously. They might tell you that you need it, but you might not take it as an important factor. The truth is, this is one of the MOST important factors there is to attracting a woman.
The answer is....CONFIDENCE.
Now before you leave this post, let me just tell you that as boring or complicated as it sounds, it's an easy thing to attain...and I'm going to tell you how to gain confidence.
1) BELIEVE: Believing in yourself is what builds confidence in you. Don't worry, I won't leave it at that. Let's discuss how to believe in yourself:
-Your Job:- Even if you have the worst job in the world, understand that you're one person who works his ass off for money...who works his ass off and earns his money the right way. There are so many people who get easy money the wrong way, but not you. There are people who beg and don't work a day in their lives, but you get up every morning and face your problems with courage. YOU are better than most of the other people.
-Not Giving In:- You're reading this because you want to impress a woman. You're reading this because you're not going to sit back and let life do it's thing, you're taking charge of what's happening in your life. You want things to happen your way, unlike so many people in this world who just let things be. You should be proud of yourself.
-You're One of a Kind:- There might be theories of dopplegangers, but you are one of a kind. Even your doppleganger might not have a personality as awesome as you.
-Think Good Things: Think of things you're thankful for. Remember all the good things you did. Remember all those acts of courage, and how you showed courage even if it was not a big thing. It's the small things that count.
2) PRETEND: Pretending to be confident is what it takes sometimes. Even if you are not confident, if you portray confidence in your character, it tends to influence your brain too...Here are a few tips on how to portray yourself as a confident man:
-The Mirror:- Stand in front of the mirror every day. Practice speaking slowly and clearly. Not too slow, but not so fast that nobody can understand you. Be calm, and clear. Do not stutter, do not add fillers to your sentences like "umm" "uhh"...practice speaking powerfully, and to the point.
Practice every day.
-Walk Like You Own It:- Walking confidently is a very important aspect of making a first impression on someone. Here are a few tips on how to walk confidently:
Womanizers may not be good teachers, since the best athlete isn't always the best teacher.
Dating Gurus might help to a certain extent, but the rest is up to you...your looks...your personality...it's entirely you.
Stylists will say that dressing will attract a woman...they are not wrong, but dressing is not everything that attracts a woman.
However good or bad the above 3 types of people are, there is always going to be this one thing that all of them know about attracting a woman.
Everyone above might mention it, but you might not take it seriously. They might tell you that you need it, but you might not take it as an important factor. The truth is, this is one of the MOST important factors there is to attracting a woman.
The answer is....CONFIDENCE.
Now before you leave this post, let me just tell you that as boring or complicated as it sounds, it's an easy thing to attain...and I'm going to tell you how to gain confidence.
1) BELIEVE: Believing in yourself is what builds confidence in you. Don't worry, I won't leave it at that. Let's discuss how to believe in yourself:
-Your Job:- Even if you have the worst job in the world, understand that you're one person who works his ass off for money...who works his ass off and earns his money the right way. There are so many people who get easy money the wrong way, but not you. There are people who beg and don't work a day in their lives, but you get up every morning and face your problems with courage. YOU are better than most of the other people.
-Not Giving In:- You're reading this because you want to impress a woman. You're reading this because you're not going to sit back and let life do it's thing, you're taking charge of what's happening in your life. You want things to happen your way, unlike so many people in this world who just let things be. You should be proud of yourself.
-You're One of a Kind:- There might be theories of dopplegangers, but you are one of a kind. Even your doppleganger might not have a personality as awesome as you.
-Think Good Things: Think of things you're thankful for. Remember all the good things you did. Remember all those acts of courage, and how you showed courage even if it was not a big thing. It's the small things that count.
2) PRETEND: Pretending to be confident is what it takes sometimes. Even if you are not confident, if you portray confidence in your character, it tends to influence your brain too...Here are a few tips on how to portray yourself as a confident man:
-The Mirror:- Stand in front of the mirror every day. Practice speaking slowly and clearly. Not too slow, but not so fast that nobody can understand you. Be calm, and clear. Do not stutter, do not add fillers to your sentences like "umm" "uhh"...practice speaking powerfully, and to the point.
Practice every day.
-Walk Like You Own It:- Walking confidently is a very important aspect of making a first impression on someone. Here are a few tips on how to walk confidently:
- While walking, imagine that you're one of the most powerful and influential persons in the world. Imagine you own the place. How would you walk if you were the most powerful person in the room?
- While walking, imagine that you have a cape attached to your back. While you're walking, this cape has to fly behind like a king's cape. Would you walk with a bent back? Would you walk fast? No, you would walk slowly and powerfully. That's how you should walk.
- Imagine you're a king walking into the room. They are your subjects. You have to show your subjects who's boss. In that case, you wouldn't walk like a lousy McWhineyPants, would you? You would walk as if nobody can harm you, as if they are all under your command.
3) TALK LIKE YOU OWN IT! Talking is the most important part of confidence. If you are dressed well, you walk like a fucking king, everyone thinks you're the man, but when you open your mouth, if you sound like a sissy, all those thoughts fade out of people's minds and they'll be dying to burst out laughing.
Here are a few tips on how to talk properly:
-No Stutters:- Talk calmly, clearly, even if your heart's racing. No fillers like "um" and "uhh".
-Do Not Agree:- Be a man of your own opinion. Be honest and straightforward. If you agree with something, then so be it. If you disagree, then don't be afraid to say you disagree, even if the entire room is filled with people who agree...having your own opinion shows confidence.
I hope this post helped. Stay tuned for more.
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