Saturday, 20 May 2017

A Woman's Story: The Gentleman's Understanding of a Woman

Introduction:

A man's an asset...a woman's the downfall of a family...is the thinking of a lot of people...a woman's birth brings unhappiness and disappointment to a lot of families...

A man can continue expanding and growing the family and earning for the family...a man's considered the successor of a family...whereas a woman...she's considered to be a loss as she gets older and gets married...and gives up the family name.







A Woman's Story: A Gentleman's Point of View...

A woman is born into this world, often being considered a burden and considered weak...

A woman grows up in a restricted environment...parents restricting her from doing a lot of things that men can do....just to make sure she's safe...why? Is it because the parents think that a woman's incapable of defending herself? Well, that's what society thinks.

A woman, is very capable of defending herself...very. The only thing that makes her vulnerable is society. She is born in a society where women are considered the weaker race...where women are considered an object...where men think they can do whatever they want with a woman...any woman.

If a woman is being treated as weaker and more delicate, that's how their mind will process things...over time a woman accepts that she belongs to the weaker race, and that's where things don't work out for a woman...that's where she stops believing that she can...that's where she stops standing up to her abusive boyfriend...that's where she stops trying to make her life better when she's upset because her boyfriend treats her badly...that's where she stops thinking that she doesn't need a man...that's where she starts depending on a man for everything...that's where she loses her freedom.

A woman's body structure is different from that of a man...her mind works differently from that of a man...but does that make her incapable? Sure, men have a tougher physique and women are a little more gentle...in mind and body, but that doesn't mean that they have no right over men.

Women, ask yourself this: Why does a woman feel unsafe the minute she walks out of her home? Why does a woman have to be cautious about every man she looks at? Why does she have to face people staring at her if she's not with a man? Why does she have to be the one that's raped and not a man? Why does she have to feel helpless when someone unknown passes lewd comments on her?

This is only because women think they're lower to men...because they think they're incapable of defending themselves...

Women, this is how gentlemen think of you:

You are beautiful, you are capable, you are amazing, you're like an angel sent on earth with all powers in your hands...you bear immense unbearable pain for days every month, you bear all the torture an abusive boyfriend lays upon you...you feel unsafe when you walk out, but you still face your fears and walk out of that door every day...and you think you're weak?

It's time you stop being what society tells you to be, and start being who you really are...Forget what society thinks of you as a woman and think of what you truly are on the inside...don't let men tell you what you are, or put you down, or treat you any way they want...stand up for what's right, and stand up for your dignity. Stand up for what you are as a woman even if the society tells you that you're different and that you have to act in a certain way...

There will always be people in society who will think of you badly if you do what you want, what you're capable of...but there will be few of us...the real gentlemen, who will look up to you, and think of you as a role model for every other woman that lives.

Real men respect a woman who stands up for herself and for what's right.



A message to mine:

My girlfriend is a really busy woman...quite often too busy to meet me. Sure, I don't like her being so busy, but I respect her...and she may not believe me, but I respect her a lot...

You know why?

It's because she's doing what she wants with her life...She's becoming the woman she wants to be, and she's building her life and writing her own story irrespective of what others tell her is right...at this point in her life, I'm not her top priority, no matter how badly she wants me to be, but it's because she's making sacrifices now that will result in her living the life she's imagined for herself.

She, I believe, is the perfect example of what a woman should be. Independent from what her parents think, from what others think. The world will tell you what's right and what's wrong, but it's your choice to be bound by their opinion, or build your own.


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