Changing Your Impression

You were no different than any other guy you find today, but now you want to become a gentleman. The world around you has an impression of you, but you want to change it. A sudden and noticeable change would look like you're trying too hard, and might not end well, so here are the steps you follow to change the impression the people around you have of you:

1. Be Subtle: Don't go around flaunting your new qualities as a gentleman, because that would only lead to people teasing you, or finding you weird. The solution here is to be subtle. You start by doing some small things which indicate a change in you. For example, start holding doors, start dressing better, start being a little more polite. Subtly bring about the change so people around you get time to accept the changes in you.

2. Fight on the side of the weak: When you see injustice, someone weak being dominated by others, may it be your friend or someone your friends are harassing, put a stop to it, or help the weak in some way. It doesn't have to be a girl, it could be your guy friend troubled by a number of douchebags. 

3. Don't be afraid to get your hands dirty: Don't get taken away by the word 'Gentleman'. Sure, it means, you're gentle with people, but that doesn't mean that when the time comes you don't fight. For example, if a woman is being harassed, or if a girl asks you for help, or may it be your best guy friend troubled by bullies, don't be afraid to beat the shit out of a douchebag. Most importantly, don't be afraid to lose the fight. Be proud that you stood up for what's right, and don't hesitate to do so again.

4. Help: You should help anyone wherever possible. It could be an old man/woman, blind man/woman in crossing the road, helping a woman lifting a heavy bag, helping anyone in need of some help.

5. Nobody wants to know: That's right, nobody wants to know. Nobody wants to know how good your car is, nobody wants to know how badass you are, nobody wants to know which phone you have and nobody wants to know how much you work out at the gym or how big your biceps are. Nobody and I mean NOBODY, cares. Those who even care about that are not true to you. So why don't you stop showing off right now. 

Sometimes, people are born show offs, so if you're born one, you might not be aware of it. If you've heard from anyone that anyone thinks you're a show off, stop immediately. If you're aware that you're a showoff, then stop. NOW.

6. Learn to Have Fun, To an Extent: Having fun at someone's expense is not good. However, that doesn't mean you can't have fun teasing someone, even if it's a girl. Tease her, in limits. Even she might enjoy it. Don't go too far with anything, and if she doesn't like you teasing her even a little, then stop immediately, and stop those who are trying to. That way, nobody gets hurt, and you will be considered a fun person to hang out with!

7. Don't make False Promises: I know quite a few female friends who have been wronged by men like you. Don't give them false hope and false promises, when they don't stand a chance with you. If you're not considering them, make that very clear to them, so they don't have any hopes. 

Also, don't make promises if you can't fulfil them. It's as simple as that. 

So, here were 7 tips to help you improve your image. These are certain subtle changes you can bring about in yourself so that people start accepting the change in you, instead of considering you to be a weird person who gets fits.

I hope this helped!

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