Sure you can dress like one, but you aren't one until you think like a gentleman. Now, by a gentleman, we don't mean a man who never fights or a man who doesn't support violence. We don't need you to smoke a pipe to be a gentleman, and you don't have to dress in a suit to be a gentleman.
So, without further ado, let's find out what steps we have to follow, to think like a gentleman:
1. Racism: Don't think that way. Don't discriminate against people because of their skin colour, don't judge people based on their skin colour or race. For instance, just yesterday some guy messaged my friend on the Instagram telling her she had a nice body and a nice naval, and he asked her to send him a picture of her. When she denied his request, he called her a 'black hoe' and told her to message him when she changes her mind.
2. Perverse: A pervert can never be a gentleman...or considered to be...and if you're a pervert, control yourself. Don't act like one. (For further information on how to make a girl feel nice about herself, check out my other post by clicking here) Perversion is nothing but an act of desperation, and in such cases all men want is sexual favours. This is wrong because a woman is not a source of satisfying your sexual desires, she's not your sex toy. Treat her with respect.
3. Stand Up: Irrespective of whether you like a woman or not, stand up for her when you feel someone's making her uncomfortable, or when she needs some kind of back up. A true gentleman will stand up for a girl, whether he feels afraid or not. You could save someone from having a bad day or even someone's life. If you're really as manly as you claim to be, this is your chance to prove it.
4. Eti-quit: Make sure you have good etiquette, or a girl won't hesitate to friendzone you and you'd have to ultimately quit trying.
5. Respect: Show a woman how much you respect her. Hold doors for her, make sure she sits down first. If she needs something, be the one to get it for her (that doesn't mean be her servant. Make sure she's not using you to do her work).
6. Stood-up: Make sure that never happens on your watch. Make sure you never leave a woman waiting for you when you never intend to come. If you're meeting her, please make efforts to be on time. It's better for you to wait than to keep her waiting.
7. Decisive, Not Dominant: Be decisive, learn to make decisions, but don't be dominating. If she doesn't agree with your decision don't force her. Make a decision which she's comfortable with. You can try persuading, but don't ever force her unless it's for her own good, not for your interests.
8.Upper Hand: Don't ever make the mistake of thinking that just because you're a man, you have the upper hand in a relationship. There's nothing of that sort, both of you should respect each other and treat each other equally.
9. Non-Violence: Now, violence is okay, but not towards your woman. Don't even think of raising a finger on her.
10. Problems: Her problems are your problems. If you think you can help her in any way with the problems she's having, then do help.
Thank you for reading this post. I hope I could be of help.
EMAIL ME AT kickassj754@gmail.com
So, without further ado, let's find out what steps we have to follow, to think like a gentleman:
1. Racism: Don't think that way. Don't discriminate against people because of their skin colour, don't judge people based on their skin colour or race. For instance, just yesterday some guy messaged my friend on the Instagram telling her she had a nice body and a nice naval, and he asked her to send him a picture of her. When she denied his request, he called her a 'black hoe' and told her to message him when she changes her mind.
2. Perverse: A pervert can never be a gentleman...or considered to be...and if you're a pervert, control yourself. Don't act like one. (For further information on how to make a girl feel nice about herself, check out my other post by clicking here) Perversion is nothing but an act of desperation, and in such cases all men want is sexual favours. This is wrong because a woman is not a source of satisfying your sexual desires, she's not your sex toy. Treat her with respect.
3. Stand Up: Irrespective of whether you like a woman or not, stand up for her when you feel someone's making her uncomfortable, or when she needs some kind of back up. A true gentleman will stand up for a girl, whether he feels afraid or not. You could save someone from having a bad day or even someone's life. If you're really as manly as you claim to be, this is your chance to prove it.
4. Eti-quit: Make sure you have good etiquette, or a girl won't hesitate to friendzone you and you'd have to ultimately quit trying.
5. Respect: Show a woman how much you respect her. Hold doors for her, make sure she sits down first. If she needs something, be the one to get it for her (that doesn't mean be her servant. Make sure she's not using you to do her work).
6. Stood-up: Make sure that never happens on your watch. Make sure you never leave a woman waiting for you when you never intend to come. If you're meeting her, please make efforts to be on time. It's better for you to wait than to keep her waiting.
7. Decisive, Not Dominant: Be decisive, learn to make decisions, but don't be dominating. If she doesn't agree with your decision don't force her. Make a decision which she's comfortable with. You can try persuading, but don't ever force her unless it's for her own good, not for your interests.
8.Upper Hand: Don't ever make the mistake of thinking that just because you're a man, you have the upper hand in a relationship. There's nothing of that sort, both of you should respect each other and treat each other equally.
9. Non-Violence: Now, violence is okay, but not towards your woman. Don't even think of raising a finger on her.
10. Problems: Her problems are your problems. If you think you can help her in any way with the problems she's having, then do help.
Thank you for reading this post. I hope I could be of help.
EMAIL ME AT kickassj754@gmail.com
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