How To Compliment A Lady

Firstly, Merry Christmas! Have a nice day filled with joy.

The inspiration for this article comes from a recent event: 

A boy sent my good friend a message on her instagramm Direct Messenger, calling her “sexy”

I say boy and not man because if you seriously use the word “sexy” till today, you have no idea how to use your words appropriately, and a real man does.

What this boy told my friend made her quite uncomfortable, and it would make any female uncomfortable. 

So, for this week’s article, I decided to talk about the art of complimenting a woman. (people clearly have no idea and it’s necessary for them to know)

So, men, here’s how you compliment a woman:

1. Be Yourself…Your Controlled Self: The thing is, men, you and I both know that if you’re extremely open about who you are, women will close themselves, thinking you’re a creep. So, be yourself, don’t pretend to be someone else, but have control over what you say. If your words are well put, and you show that you’re a person who has himself in control, women will appreciate you much more. 

       

       On the other hand, if you go berserk, saying everything that comes in your mind, women are        going to get creeped out. For example, the guy who called my friend “sexy” said exactly                what was in his mind. His mind believed that. However, if he had control over what he said,          and he said 

       “Hey, I think you’re beautiful”, she would have taken it as a compliment, and probably would        have had a different opinion about him.

     2. Be Confident: Let’s get to the point here. If you go up to the woman with a slouched back,          no eye contact, a creepy constant smile and say “um…uhhhehehe…..umm….I just…                    wanted to say….AAAAAA DAVID I CAN’T DO THIS OMG…”, I’m sorry friend, it’s not going            to work for you.                                      

         On the other hand, if you go upto her and say “Heeyyyy GURRRLLL you got a nice ass”,              not going to work either. If you think that’s the solution, well women will think you’re                      extremely disrespectful, they’ll believe you to be a fuck-boy, they’ll think you’re a creep, a              player, and that’s not what you want. 

         Here’s how you do it: You get your posture straight, go up to her, look her in the eye, and              tell her what you think of her, in appropriate language. Not only will you come off as a nice            person, but you will also show them that you’ve got the confidence to express yourself no            matter what anyone thinks of you. 

     3. Pickup Lines = No No: Guys often think that pickup lines work very well, but to many                  women, it comes off as too cheesy, and it shows desperation. It shows lack of creativity on          your part. 

     

         Pickup lines should be used very cautiously, because women with a certain self-respect            and class won’t fall for it, unless it’s something out of the ordinary. Not all pickup lines are          very expressive of how you feel, for example, if you think a lady sitting across the table in a            cafe is pretty, and you use a pickup line which goes like this: “Your lips look so lonely…                would they like to meet mine?”, you’re going to get one of the following responses:

• - “eww no”
• - *slaps you so hard that even google won’t be able to find you*

Above all, she doesn’t even know what you’re trying to tell her. You definitely want to kiss, but is that kiss merely because you’re a horny douchebag, is it because you’re desperate, or are you a decent person who just finds her attractive? This makes her highly uncomfortable, and you need to stop.

What’s the solution to this problem?

I just showed you what kind of an effect pickup lines have on women. Now here’s the solution to your problem: DON’T USE THEM.

You don’t need pickup lines for women. Here’s the thing: if you’re creative enough to come up with something nice to tell a woman you find attractive, well and good. However, even if you’re controlled, confident, and you go and appropriately compliment a woman, you shouldn’t have a problem. 

Now that we’ve got control over ourselves, confidence in the way we carry ourselves, and we’ve got pickup lines out of our head, here’s a few examples of compliments that women will actually appreciate:

1. You’re really pretty!
2. You’re beautiful.
3. You look stunningly attractive!
4. That dress looks really good on you!
5. You’re the most gorgeous woman I’ve ever seen.
6. You’ve got really nice hair…which shampoo do you use? (I was kidding about the shampoo part, don’t try to compliment a woman with that lol)

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