An Introduction To The World Of Gentlemen

Gentleman...it’s a word which pops the image of a man in a suit, wearing a hat, carrying a walking stick along with him. Nobody wants to be that man today. There are quite a few people who have this misconception, and that’s why they do everything they can to AVOID being called a gentleman. Well, I went ahead and asked a few of my female friends what their definition of a gentleman is, so men, get this clear in your heads:

“A gentleman is someone who protects, respects and cares for a woman...no matter what. They take actions which others can’t even imagine of doing. They live by loyalty and realise the fact that loyalty isn’t effing grey. Either you’re completely loyal or you are nowhere around it. They never let the influences of the modern world affect their attributes of chivalry. They treat their women as if she’s all they’ve got and have a sense of pride towards her achievements. They encourage her to achieve more, make her insecurities pass, motivate her, and support her in all she believes in. Above everything, each and every gentleman on this planet is a dying piece of art, and we hope they help create more such men like them and make this world a happier place.”

“I think a gentleman is someone who’s chivalrous and kind at heart, who knows how to listen to someone, who is caring, and creative.”

“A gentleman is one who’s courteous, and chivalrous as well, and respects not only women but the society as a whole”

“A man who feels a girl is as equal as him and does not feel superior just because he’s a guy! Also, the one who shows respect and a friendly behaviour to all the girls.”

“who respects women” (this woman jumps right to the point hehe)

“A gentleman is, for me, one who is polite, helpful, and someone who’s friendly.”

“A gentleman is not only one who understands a woman but feels her pains, joy, sorrow, sadness, happiness...he should feel every part of her deep down....he should not only be concerned with her body but should be deeply attached to her soul...his feelings are not defined by the money he spends on his girlfriend, but are defined by how much he cares for her, how much he respects her.” –Hritika Rohra.

“a gentleman is someone who understands his woman and takes care of her, someone who she can trust.”

“he’s the guy who squeezes his girl’s hand in public and not her butt” – Karen Joseph (this girl’s spot on)

So, men, now that it’s clear in our heads, we know that being a gentleman doesn’t mean wearing a suit and hat. As one of the women said, a gentleman is a dying piece of art. That is absolutely true.

If you consider yourself to be superior to her, break if off now because you don’t deserve to be in a relationship.                                                                                                                   If you think you’re just having fun and enjoying life, break it off now, because your idea of enjoyment is going to harm her and you’re an animal.                                                               If you’re in a relationship because everyone else is in one, you don’t deserve anything. Fuck you.

Men, don’t just date women for sex. That’s not right. Women don’t think like men, they don’t want sex as much as men do. They want your love, your affection. They want someone who will always be there for them, someone whose shoulder they can cry on, someone who will take care of them. They want someone who doesn’t judge them by what they wear. A woman wants a man who can look into her eyes instead of her breasts, and tell her how much he loves her. You do not have to wear a suit for that.

A relationship is a beautiful thing. A relationship means commitment, and men say they’re scared of commitment, but you know what, if you’re in a relationship without commitment, it means nothing. When you finally find someone who’s worth being committed to, you won’t have to think twice. Your fears of commitment will vanish, and you will want to commit.



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